The room is dimly lit. The fireplace is barely keeping the two of you warm. You just had few sips of wine. Your clothes are lying abandoned on floor. You throw yourself at each other and then…what a bummer. You couldn’t set the sack on fire.
The passion was forced, the climax was fake and the noises, well, they just weren’t there at all! Now you can do two things, either let your girl know that she is bad in bed, or try make sessions better and steamier. Here is how you do it:
Not In The Mood For Love
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You don’t have to say it. Rather you should not say it. But give signs clear enough that she understands. Bring back your school days when the ultimate excuse for not going to school was a fake illness. The moment you realize that she is about to make an advance, tell her that you feel you are suffering from diarrhoea. Forget sex, she might not want to even sleep in the same bed with you for the next three nights.
Spice Things Up
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This should probably have been the first point, but to set things in order, something else required to be set on the top spot. Anyway, so how do you make your sessions steamier? To begin with, you need to get done with the mechanization of sex. Don’t just enter your bedroom and do the ‘Let’s have sex’ thing. That ranks right up there among the biggest turn-offs for a woman. Sex is not something that you ‘have to’ do. It always has to be something you ‘want to’ do – and badly so. This is why every sex guru would advise you to indulge in some foreplay. And foreplay doesn’t mean fondling her breasts. Women have some unlikely spots in their body that tingle them with unbridled pleasure. Earlobes, neck, and in some cases, their feet take the cake. Prolong your foreplay and let her get stimulated till she is begging with anticipation. Yes, you need patience. Derive it from the realization that you have been having bad sex for a painfully drawn-out time. If your sessions are lacking that passion, it is most likely that both of you are accountable. And it’s time to do some re-imagining.
Sex has to be part junk titillation, part romance. It is up to you to bring the two to your bedroom and blend them just fine for an exhilarating orgasm.
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